Most plugged in people will tell you, “You can’t judge someone!” but anyone with a Subtle predisposition has always seen the hyprocrisy behind such sentiment.
Countless times we’ve seen the very same people turn around and judge in the next instant by appearance, dress, ethnicity, walk, talk, music, hobbies, sports, food…you name it.
One has to conclude they are simply oblivious and do not know themselves to be able say such silly things.
One with a degree of self-awareness understands it’s simply human to judge, and the better we get at consciously reading certain signs, the less arbitrary and more accurate such readings become.
In the ‘Highlander’ TV shows and movies, two immortals can instantly sense each other’s presence when they enter a room, even if there’s a crowd.
Over the years, I’ve come to understand it’s exactly the same with different types people.
I have an old saying “Every breed knows its own.”
Any place where people gather whether a profession, a hobby, or a bar tends to attract a particular breed.
And once a certain breed achieves a critical mass, it penalizes incompatible types and promotes the like-minded.
Such are people.
One can understand the way of the world and work with it or ignore it and mask the truth with popular platitudes.
This is especially important for someone of a minority breed, an introvert outsider who enters nearly every group setting at a major disadvantage, faced with loyalty tests and traps meant to weed them out.
Life as one of an outcast breed is precarious. Judging who can be trusted and who is compatible becomes even more important.
For years, to my great detriment, I was handicapped by the common platitudes. All that misdirection has little real effect most people’s behavior because their actions are mostly guided by instinct.
But for someone of awareness, such falsehoods can be devastating.
I ended up not judging time and again growing up when I absolutely should have!
Only after years did I begin to understand that everything I’d ever been told was a lie!
Finally, I learned to become gradually more shrewd about sizing people up.
Before overall appearance, ethnicity, age, anything else there are far more important things to pay attention to.
First is body language.
Subtle people, are often divorced from their bodies, but spiritually quite aware. This makes for a distinct demeanor…often stiff and deliberate, a certain presence, a detached dignity. It comes across as cold, robotic, haughty, very unpleasant to “well-adjusted” people.
They never walk into a room with a smile. First they observe.
They don’t smile for most photos, but they do regard the camera with a frank and intimate gaze that reveals their character.
One cannot exaggerate the importance of the eyes:
People of the outcaste breeds have what I call spirit or dream eyes, because there’s a light of awareness, a certain type of awareness that I don’t see in most people’s eyes.
As a high school freshman, a name sprung into my head as I observed people passing by during lunch or walking to my next class: In my mind but never aloud I called them “The Dog-Eyed.” There was emotion and personality in their eyes, but none of “the awareness.”
Back then I just felt something was horribly wrong, I was totally isolated, but didn’t remotely understand I had to actively judge to find friends and allies in this world.
Now, it seems I can get at least strong hints of breeds and predispositions even just looking at pairs of eyes in a crowd. And when I have a chance to get to know more about someone, my first impression is less and less often wrong. Patterns we’re not supposed to see in polite society are all arrayed for our perusal.
As I’ve learned, some people are not “in” their eyes or face, when seeing athletes or anyone who works primarily with their body, often I see an odd emptiness in their visage but quickly sense their energy lies in their torso instead; they talk with their shoulders. I even find myself returning their gaze to their center and it seems natural enough to them.
It’s not without coincidence that professional athletes and dancers are not also scientists or philosophers. They live first in their body’s instinct, pretty much the polar opposite of the archetypal thinker.
Another giveaway is how someone talks.
Unusual and unusually varied word choice is very common; all of it contraband smuggled through the blockade of the mass culture.
The introvert often has the same deliberate, stilted, yet dignified manner with their mouth as they have with the rest of their body and there’s no way to hide it, not even when trying to imitate common diction.
I don’t think even language really matters; the “symptoms” are always there.