Towards A Kingdom For the Introvert

Some who visit here may have noticed I have stopped writing new posts and understandably, some might suppose that I have abandoned the ideas I espouse here.
I would like to immediately correct any such notion.
I feel almost as if this blog were a child of mine. I feel a sense of pride whenever I look back through the archives.
After nearly 100 posts, consisting of close to 60,000 words not including any of the comments, I’ve created a book-length body of work that covers all of my main points.
To go further could only dilute my main ideas and take up unnecessary space.

Furthermore, concluding this project has allowed me to turn my attentions to other writing projects in which I’m actively exploring new ground. I certainly haven’t stopped writing. I don’t think I could if I wanted to.
As a writer, I think it important to avoid the temptation to become stuck on a single issue and to always try to grow.
This is not the only reason why I will not make a career out of any one project.

I have a basic misgiving about many communities that gather around a grievance or discuss a specific problem indefinitely.
These sites tend to end up with a community of people united by victimhood. This kind of environment isn’t likely to help people progress. More likely it keeps them paralyzed right where they’re at.
I would like those who happen upon my writings here to use them to move forward in life. I don’t want these writings to be a final destination. I want this site to be a waystation to give a needed reprieve and show the way onwards to a powerful kingdom of our own.

The blog itself is about the formative steps I’ve had to go through, the life philosophy that formed as I progressed from a lost teenager full of self-loathing to an adult with a positive identity by which to define myself and a purpose to strive towards.
I would hope to discourage the formation of a new victim identity, the favorite response of nearly every ‘identity’ faction that feels slighted in our age.

I believe victim ideologies set forth a message of passivity and weakness. Pleading for concessions and claiming helplessness is not a positive outlook. As such it can never lead to the achievement of productive long term goals.
To get things done, one has to approach issues from a position of pride and strength, not of helplessness and victimhood.

I believe that discovering pride in oneself and forming a positive group identity with kindred spirits accomplishes infinitely more than focusing on “oppression.”

In this vein, I must note that there has been a new trend in writings about introverts.
When I first started writing this blog, most of the very few books out there treated the subject of introversion almost as if it were a disease.
Even books supposedly about introverts were clearly written from an extrovert perspective and were mostly about how not to be an introvert.
The latest books are some of the first I’ve seen that actively affirm that introverts have unique virtues and disproportionately make certain kinds of contributions to society.
This is a big step in the right direction but I still perceive a pervasive victim message.

I feel like this new discourse is still trying to be as non-offensive as possible.
Every time a virtue of introversion is noted, an equal praise of extroverts usually comes after a couple of sentences after or a deft apology that says some variation of “but the world needs both extroverts and introverts.”
Perhaps this is so, but these frequent disclaimers tell me that these new thinkers are highly insecure about their message.
They are still tethered to the orthodoxy and constantly looking back over their shoulder.
In this new sentiment, we still see worn, innocuous anecdotes of ‘shy’ introverts struggling to overcome their shyness. Serious issues are carefully disarmed by being made cute and humorous as in the popular Atlantic monthly article about an introvert’s daily frustrations. This article is a good article, but like the new, more sympathetic books, it shies away from the stark emotional reality of being an introvert.

You won’t see too much focus on the reality on the ground.

-Probably much higher suicide rates
-Living with the constant threat of being ostracized from society.
-The challenges of living through extreme social isolation and loneliness.
-The anger, hatred, and self hatred, the feelings of worthlessness that come with being thrown away like garbage into an outside place, a Void.
-The utter terror and emptiness of wondering if you’re the only person like you in the whole world.

To name a few.

We must be the change we wish to see and so I intend to step in and say my piece.

I am currently transforming this blog into a kindle e-book.

Addendum:

Some have interpreted this post perhaps differently than I intended, so I will clarify:

My work at the Kingdom isn’t done yet. I’ve yet to compile it into an easy to browse kindle book that will be far more accessible and logically put together than the blog.
And I’ll certainly be adding new content in the process.

I think writing about how to accept oneself as an introvert and counter all the negative messages society gives us is just a first baby step.

I believe that it is the calling of thoughtful, Subtle introverts to rise and exert influence. To claim our rightful place.

Ever since I’ve done most of my writing for this introductory blog, I’ve focused on asking fundamental questions and challenging established ideas in an effort to get some idea of a core philosophy and the basis for a system of economic, social, and political thought that suits a more detached, reflective sort of people.

I’m gradually encountering like minds through my blogs and it is my fondest hope that one day there might be a thriving community of outsiders pursuing concrete aims.

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9 Responses to Towards A Kingdom For the Introvert

  1. What other writing projects are you pursuing apart from the ebook? Your other blogs have also been quiet lately.

    Just like that Atlantic article, a TED talk on introversion suffered as well. The reason the speaker gave for talking the way she did:

    “But I’ll go on playing this new oxymoronic role. Partly because I believe it’s healthy for all of us (extroverts included) to stretch occasionally beyond our temperaments. Mostly because, for the sake of a book on the value of quiet, I’m willing to make a little noise.”

    The other “writings” you talk about have more to do with helping the extrovert understand the introvert, and less with the introvert understanding himself/herself. That could be the reason behind that light tone, and the desire to balance stuff. In school elocution lessons, we were taught to balance “good” points with the “bad”; a concept I never really understood. This style makes everyone happy, but dilutes what you really want to say. It is geared towards the Loud.

    I am very glad that you haven’t gone through your posts and ideas in that manner, in this blog or elsewhere. I Have already printed out some of your best posts. I hope your book manages to change a few more lives.

    • Hi, Fool. Good to hear from you again.

      I put about 100 posts into this blog. I put about a hundred posts into the other blog you’re talking about. Now I’m working on an information feed style blog along with co-authors. I’ve done about 250 short posts over there. That’s also the project I’m currently focusing on.(It’s the RSS on the sidebar)
      From there I’m going to start moving into self-publishing books through amazon.

      I’m currently working close to full time to pay the bills while testing and developing a business model for selling artisanal sourdough bread.(I made my own starter).
      If that doesn’t ultimately work, I’ll come up with something else.

      In the next few years, I will be trying my utmost to develop sources of wealth so I have the time and space I need to pursue more ambitious projects, to provide aid to fellow Subtle people(I’ve found some, some of them through this blog), and to pursue joint projects with said Subtle people.

      Anyone can write stuff on the internet. Rhetoric without action is hollow.
      In the last year I’ve begun to work in earnest towards transforming my ideas into reality.

      As for the tone of the latest messages on introversion:

      ” more to do with helping the extrovert understand the introvert, and less with the introvert understanding himself/herself.”

      That’s a good way of saying it, Mr. Fool.

      This blog is first about understanding the self and forming that positive self concept and identity.
      Once that is done, the way is prepared for action.

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  3. But you haven’t posted for about 3 bazillion years, you cunt. I can get that kind of treatment from a dollar store extravert. As for the “change you wish to see,” Ran Prieur already did this on his blog recently, calling bullshit on it. Good luck with your book.

    • Hmm, that level of vitriol is unexpected.

      I understand that blogging is about updates and new posts, but should it be?
      Can something be said that is enough in itself or must we always produce something “new and improved” because it is expected of us.
      After all, this is not a time sensitive celebrity magazine and I am not a performing circus animal.

      Blogs are just a way for me to put text online in bite-sized chunks. Instead of sitting around in a notebook or word document as they would have before the late 90s, I choose to make these thoughts publicly available to anyone who’s interested.
      Blogs allow me to reach out to people and receive feedback through each step of a journey.

      I am aware that Prieur is resigned to the fact that neither he, nor any organization is going to be able to change civilization.
      You would be mistaken to suppose that I believe I can change the entire world by myself.

      Perhaps you may have noticed that most of my aims involve working in small groups first.

      • Gosh, I must be on the internet, because somebody just used the word “vitriol.”

        No, you are not a performing animal, but a note to advise your regular readers who do not make use of RSS feed that you are otherwise occupied, or just plain bored, and will not be posting again, would have been nice.

        It’s what any introvert, who is not also AUTISTIC, would do.

  4. Well, I’m looking forwards to going through your archives. I have many questions that need answers… wish ya the best. Time for me to start reading this blog’s content.

  5. Gluon, I cannot tell you how valuable this blog has been to me.

    For a long time I eagerly awaited every new post you would make, to see what penetrating insights you would reveal about yourself that also pertained to me.

    By the time you started posting less frequently, I was already approaching a place of self-acceptance and self-understanding, with the help of you and other introverted thinkers. Thank you for being who you are, and thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us.

    J.

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